"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened"-Dr. Seuss
This blog post is dedicated to my many friends that I made abroad. Especially my family (Cal, Calum, Bram, Julie, Eve, Sorcha, Stuart, Lily, Reece, and John)
"Auld Lang Syne" ie Remembering "Times gone by"
The next week I had exams. It was a pretty uneventful week because I studied for all my tests. My Celtic Civilization exam was ok because it was pretty much what i thought it would be. Then on Saturday I had my education final. That was exactly what I thought it would be. Unfortunately that I got really sick (there was a cold going around in my flat). My friends were going McDonalds and I asked them to bring me back a Mcflurry. Unfortunately the Mcflurry machine was broken but I was able to feel better thanks to my flatmate Julie for giving me a heating pad and checking up on me. I felt so bad though because she got really sick the next day.On Sunday Ivan and David had their Christmas party. It was so fun. I finally was given my first British popper! There was good company and great food. Even if I was sick, it was a good party.
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Ivan's Christmas Party |
Ice Skating Memories |
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Night out with John and Cal |
Room of Heads |
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Dali |
The Best Cafe in Glasgow |
That night, Ivan came over for coffee and to say goodbye. It was hard to pack and be able to spend time with him but I am glad he came over and that I was able to say so long for now (because it's not goodbye). I also gave him my favorite blanket because there was no space for it in my carry on.
Later that night, my flat and I had Christmas dinner and secret Santa. Dinner was so delicious. Eve's parents made AMAZING soup as an appetizer. For our main course we had turkey, yorkshire pudding, potatoes, and sausage and bacon. Then we had secret santa. We had two secret santa's, one for dutch Christmas (December 5th) and one for Christmas. For regular Christmas we bought things but for Dutch Christmas we made people things. Julie got eye shadow, Reece got a beer hat and meggings, John got tequila, Cal got an Amazing Race mug with sweets and a Wales flag cake, Calum got a dog calender (because he just loves dogs), games, and a letter (like the sorority letters-from me), Bram got chocolate and the Amazing Race game, Gordon got gold rocks, Rowan got a hat clip, and Eve got Despicable Me. But I got the best present of all. From Sorcha I got a book and a Shamrock key necklace. The necklace was perfect, I will wear it everyday and think of my perfect friends abroad. Julie had me for Dutch secret Santa. She had exams all week so she said she didn't make anything but she heard a song and dedicated it for me. It was really the sweetest present anyone has every given me. I don't need anything else.
That night I decided not to go to sleep so I decided to go out with my flatmates and friends. We went to the QMU Christmas party. We saw S club 7 (only two members) and danced all night. Then we went to go get chips and kebabs. Then I went to get ready to leave but I couldn't. I couldn't stop crying. They were all even sweeter when the helped me get lock up and see me off in the cab. I know that it isn't goodbye but I know it will never be the same. I know that eventually we will all go our separate ways. That's why it was so hard to say goodbye.
Christmas Party |
Never Alone |
I got in at around 7 that day. The customs line was not that bad. Marley and my dad picked me up at the airport. I was so happy to see them. When I came home Leah was having her sweet sixteen party but my friends and family were there too. It was the perfect way to welcome me home.
So why is this blog post titled "My Neverland"? Because that what Glasgow was to me, my Neverland. It was my bliss. There, time stopped and reality ceased to exist. I was able to be myself and create new friends and family. But like Wendy, I had to leave Neverland and come back to my life in the United States.
I learned so much when I was in Scotland. Most of all, I learned that the title of my blog is wrong. Although Scotland is a part of Great Britain, it's its own territory. I am not advocating or fighting against independence. But going abroad has shown me that appreciate Scotland and Glasgow as its own area. Now I can understand why William and Kate went to study there. It's a great place for lovely people. I am proud to call it one of my many homes.
Julie's song